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SAY IT WELL
How to Approach Your Partner About Opening Your Relationship Without Breaking Trust
You only get one first conversation. Get it right to avoid damaging your relationship.
How you approach it will shape what happens next: trust, safety, collaboration… or defensiveness and rupture.
If you’re thinking about bringing up non-monogamy, this guide helps you prepare in a grounded, loving, intelligent way so you can explore what you’re curious about without destabilizing your relationship.
About Me:
Hey, I’m Chloe!
Licensed relationship coach and polyamorous for 13 years.
I help committed couples have high-stakes conversations without blowing up trust or connection.
This guide distills what actually works, so you don’t have to guess, worry or improvise how to have this pivotal conversation.
What’s Inside:
Five high-value components. Deep, but easy to move through. Practical, not overwhelming. And dare I say… exciting?
- Conversation Readiness Assessment
Get grounded in what you stand for so you speak from alignment, not anxiety. - Align Before You Speak
Understand how your partner is wired so you approach in a way they can actually hear. - Understanding Your Partner Before You Speak
Consent-forward scripts so you’re never scrambling for the right words. - Partner Insight Guide What to Say During Any Hard Conversation
- Scripts Rooted in Five Pillars
Know exactly what to say, on the spot. No improvising.
Download the Say It Well guide and walk into the most important conversation of your relationship prepared.
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